When Fiction Feels Real: How Imagined Experiences Trigger Real Mindsets
Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how emotions—and therefore mindsets—can be triggered by experiences that aren’t real in the physical sense. Stories, dreams, movies, daydreams… they may be fictional, but the feelings they evoke are anything but. Take that animated movie—you know the one. It opens with a couple who met as children and spent their lives together. She couldn’t have kids, and when she passed, the old man was left completely alone. I’ve seen it multiple times, and I cry every time. It makes me think of me and my own husband, and our future. That sadness pulls me into a Knowledge-Based Mindset. I reflect. I imagine. I feel. Then there are the scary books—the ones that made me practically sprint from the bathroom to the bedroom at night, keeping the light on until morning. Was I being logical? Not at all. My Survival-Based Mindset had kicked in, responding to imagined danger as if it were real. And just last week, I heard my husband and oldest child scream from the other room....